In the end I realised I added the link wrong and cos I was logged into amazon, I saw my wishlist and everyone else saw the "new wishlist items you could add" page. ugh I would never put Robbie Williams on my wishlist ever.
So now it works, and I don't think people telling me stuff are insane anymore.
I have felt really unwell tonight, my throat is never gonna clear up! argh nothing helps, homeopathy, modern medicine, I'm going for psychic surgery next :)